Talk:Sex (activity)

Name

I made this the default page for the word because... well, isn't that what everyone thinks of first, really? Alternatively, we may decide to follow Wikipedia and make the default page about biological sex/reproduction. John Stephenson 23:16, 26 April 2008 (CDT)

Due to our new disambiguation conventions, this article won't stay at Sex. I propose (a) moving it to Sex (activity); and (b) having sex redirect there as it's the more common meaning. John Stephenson 02:32, 11 June 2008 (CDT)

Family-friendly

I decided that having a page about sex is not outside the family-friendly policy, as long as it doesn't include graphic language etc. John Stephenson 23:16, 26 April 2008 (CDT)

Rape

Maybe the rape section is more than is needed; I'm not sure. I tried to reference everything but I was mainly working from Pinker's book. The roots of rape are a deeply controversial topic and I can understand people steering clear of this until now. John Stephenson 23:16, 26 April 2008 (CDT)

Some thoughts

I have been a sexuality researcher for some decades (yes, I have a doctorate), publishing extensively in the professional, scholarly, peer-reviewed literature since the 1970s. My work includes animal and human sexuality. My wife Martha Cornog and I have published several professional books on human sexuality alone and together, and I have been on editorial masthead of several scholarly sexuality journals and encyclopedias, including the 4-volume International Encyclopedia of Sexuality, edited by Robert T. Francoeur, PhD and Ray Noonan, PhD. 2001-ongoing. NY: Continuum. (available online from the Kinsey Institue: http://kinseyinstitute.org/ccies/jp.php). I am also a member, for some decades, of several professional sexuality research and therapy organizations. (You can find out more about my books on amazon.com.)

The question is how do I contribute to the articles on sexuality on Citizendium? The answer is less simple than saying, "Well, just plunge in and start writing!" Before that, it's necessary to establish a tone and an approach, and answer the question, "What do you want for articles that deal with sexuality?" Who are you writing for, and what do you want to convey to that audience?

I just recently heard of Citizendium and decided to check out the articles and approach here. So I'd like some opinions and reactions to the question "What do you want in this area?"

Timothy Perper 06:42, 25 September 2008 (CDT)

First, welcome! You bring up some extremely good questions. Between family-friendliness and audience understanding, it's complex. There was an interview, some years ago, with Masters and Johnson, about how they deliberately wrote Human Sexual Response in dry medical language, to avoid the appearance of sensationalism. There might be some merit in using such a technique as a starting level of articles, and then incrementally gaining consensus on how to make it more accessible without setting off red flags. Even some of the earlier writers, such as Kraft-Ebbing and Ellis, may have made acceptance difficult by having more case studies and less unifying discussion. While I personally feel that people like Alex Comfort made valuable contributions to general knowledge, I'd certainly hesitate to borrow his style for initial CZ articles.

As one test case, I looked to see if we had an article on paraphilia. Unfortunately, I don't have a current DSM-IV at hand, but consider this point in the structure: the introduction makes passing reference to the conditions under which a paraphilia becomes pathological, but its two major subheadings are a list of paraphilias and treatment. IMHO, paraphilias that are adjuncts to conventional sexuality and are safe/sane/consensual are not especially in need of treatment, although there might be a bit of guidance about recognizing pathology if and when it comes up.

I'll ask for community opinion, however, if either in this article or independently, that the discussion of two paradigms, even in an academic context, fit CZ: SSC (safe, sane and consensual) as opposed to RACK (Risk-Aware, Consensual Kink). Can we even discuss "kink"? Is it a lay term for "paraphilia", and might or not be pathological, or does even that discussion go beyond the family-friendliness policy, if written professionally? I'm smiling as I write this, thinking that since my mother was a psychotherapists, the first sexually-oriented books I read were professional but not necessarily mainstream (e.g., a more anthropological study like Ford & Beach's Patterns of Sexual Behavior).

Good questions to which I have no simple answers. Howard C. Berkowitz 08:23, 25 September 2008 (CDT)

Thanks for your kind comments. I think you have described the problem very accurately. On one hand, we have the impenetrable jargon of early M&J -- I heard the same story, BTW, that they deliberately wrote it like that to defuse accusations of sensationalism -- and the semi-prurient (or openly pornographic) writing of much of the Web. On the other hand, Alex Comfort set a standard in trade-book publication for writing about sexuality quite openly but without the pornographic overtones, but I think you are right that it is a style and tone inappropriate to CZ. That's not so much an objection to popularization as it is to the imprecision of so much popular writing on sexuality. Your mention of how to discuss kinky sex is a good example: how do we discuss what is and is not pathological? Like you, I don't have any simple answers. It's something that needs to be discussed. Timothy Perper 13:31, 25 September 2008 (CDT)